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ZombiePrincess
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| | Subject: Another Question... But this one isn't as awkward... Fri Aug 19, 2011 9:43 pm | |
| So most of my friends are guys. And my boyfriend has never had a problem with that.
And I'm also a very huggy person. I always hug people. He's also never had a problem with that.
But I just got done speaking to him... And he said that recently he's started getting jealous when I hug even anyone. I told him I wouldn't hug anyone anymore (which will be tough cuz I'm so used to the hugginess). But he said he felt bad cuz he felt like he was controlling me and shit.
I can't even hug my best friend anymore.
I just need some other minds besides my own.
Anyone have any thoughts?
I won't talk to him much until he gets back from his dad's so I've got a day or two to figure out what to tell him. |
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Mass Distraction
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| | Subject: Re: Another Question... But this one isn't as awkward... Sat Aug 20, 2011 10:08 am | |
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Slippery-Q
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| | Subject: Re: Another Question... But this one isn't as awkward... Sat Aug 20, 2011 6:27 pm | |
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Mass Distraction
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| | Subject: Re: Another Question... But this one isn't as awkward... Sat Aug 20, 2011 6:39 pm | |
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NiteKrawler
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| | Subject: Re: Another Question... But this one isn't as awkward... Sat Aug 20, 2011 7:09 pm | |
| Should I make an advice section? If you love him then you should respect that he doesn't want you all over other guys even if you don't like them like that. But I sense your best friend is a danger to your relationship. Wait until you and your guy get into a fight and you run to your best friend for a shoulder to cry on. It's classic. Anyway, asking you to funnel your attention towards himself instead of at other guys is not unreasonable. I can tell you right now he senses the connection between you and your best friend. Do you think him all of a sudden being jealous and the recent injection of your best friend into your circle is a coincidence? I don't. _________________ Leon Fanboys Please Click Here Wesker is officially dead: http://ps3.ign.com/articles/100/1006931p1.html | NiteKrawler wrote: | | Jamesy wrote: | | Fine you win NightCrawler |
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Slippery-Q
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| | Subject: Re: Another Question... But this one isn't as awkward... Sat Aug 20, 2011 9:29 pm | |
| Yeah, it'd probably be best to make an advice section.
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ZombiePrincess
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| | Subject: Re: Another Question... But this one isn't as awkward... Sun Aug 21, 2011 3:34 pm | |
| | NiteKrawler wrote: | | Should I make an advice section? If you love him then you should respect that he doesn't want you all over other guys even if you don't like them like that. But I sense your best friend is a danger to your relationship. Wait until you and your guy get into a fight and you run to your best friend for a shoulder to cry on. It's classic. Anyway, asking you to funnel your attention towards himself instead of at other guys is not unreasonable. I can tell you right now he senses the connection between you and your best friend. Do you think him all of a sudden being jealous and the recent injection of your best friend into your circle is a coincidence? I don't. |
I know. I've thot about this a lot the past two days and I finally got to talk to him last night for about 30 minutes. We talked about it and I understand completely now. I can give up hugging other guys. And I'm sure my best friend will understand.
I don't care what I have to do, I don't want to lose my boyfriend. Not again. There was a week where we broke up and it was the worst time of my life. I've never felt so much pain. I felt like I had died and cried constantly. I never cry... I've learned not to. But I couldn't help myself then. So I'm not as concerned about the hugging thing now.
As for the advice section- That'd be cool. Lol |
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ThomVD
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| | Subject: Re: Another Question... But this one isn't as awkward... Sun Aug 21, 2011 4:09 pm | |
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Mass Distraction
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| | Subject: Re: Another Question... But this one isn't as awkward... Sun Aug 21, 2011 4:32 pm | |
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| | Subject: Re: Another Question... But this one isn't as awkward... Sun Aug 21, 2011 4:48 pm | |
| That too. Don't be afraid to cry. It feels good to cry if you are very sad about something (at least for me). |
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| | Subject: Re: Another Question... But this one isn't as awkward... Sun Aug 21, 2011 5:24 pm | |
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ZombiePrincess
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| | Subject: Re: Another Question... But this one isn't as awkward... Mon Aug 22, 2011 9:29 pm | |
| I don't cry. When I cry my parents scream. So I quit. Even when I'm extreamly upset. If I cry at all it's normally if I cry myself to sleep. The week that me and my boyfriend we apart I endured screaming and even got slapped once. I didn't give a shit tho. |
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| | Subject: Re: Another Question... But this one isn't as awkward... Tue Aug 23, 2011 9:26 am | |
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