Okay, so my ex and i have not spoken in three months and all of a sudden she started calling and texting me nonstop. she is saying she wants to be with me, im saying i dont love her anymore, and it keeps going in this circle. she is even dating someone else now and ive brought this up to her several times, but according to her he is 'okay with us being friends and talking'. does anyone know what i could possibly do to make this stop? its really starting to grind me down, and i cant block her number because then she just finds some other way to bug me. like my parents and friends.

more importantly, i dont want to get put in the middle of her new 'relationship' and have the dude blame and be pissed at me even though im doing everything i can think of to get her to leave me alone. im not worried about getting my ass kicked, ashland,kentucky is about 30 hours away from slc, ut and besides that, the guy is way smaller than me and i dont fight fair... so does anyone have an input, what did you guys say to make a girl hate you enough to leave you alone?

I actually was in a similar situation. She has since stopped contacting me that often because I spoke and acted really cold towards her. I didn't actually TRY to do this but I just couldn't act normally with her anymore. Btw. that ex you're talking about really should get her priorities straight.

@Nite: lol xD

i dont think any amount of twilight hatred or love is going to help at this point. im just going to try calling her a prostitute though, i dont think ive used it enough and it just might be able to piss her off enough to keep her away... im gonna feel horrible after this

In this kind of situation you just have to suck it up.

I don't like being mean either but sometimes you just have to.

i hate my life. she asked me to mail her my sperm so she can have a baby from me. couldnt say anything. thats like someone walking up to you on the street and asking if you want to poop on their chest or something. threw me really off guard. ended up calling at&t and had her blocked on three of my friends phones, my family's plan, and my phone. hopefully its the last ill hear from her

Wow. Thank God I didn't have it that bad O.o (not that she would've been all that interested in getting back together though)
That's fucked up, dood. Hope she leaves you be now. Seriously.

Ew. She said that? >_> That woman needs a slap.
Anyway, I hope she keeps away from you. Geez. =_=

shes getting therapy actually. you can see what good it is doing. right? right? wrong. she is five times as batshit insane as the day i met her. but she cant contact me anymore, so thank god. she always blames her previous relationship on everything because he... well he beat the shit out of her. i know shes obsessed with me because i made him stop, but i was happy when i ended it with her.

You can't help anyone who doesn't want help. Psychiatrists/psychologists are not magic, no matter what most people believe.