Cant live with em can live without them. Wow my female is a huge bitch IMO constantly spending my xmas money on her damn family and then wanting 120 to go get her hair done. Now I know why so many people commit suicide during the holidays cause god damn that shit is annoying. How come when I get money = both of our munnies? I worked for it their for I should spend it how I see fit.

Instead she spent over 100 bucks on her damn niece and nephew, 80 on herself for a coat, over 150 on my son which I aint got a problem with, 10 for slippers for me and now she wants to go to the damn stylist are u FUCKIN KIDDIN ME!!!!!! Soooo I get a pair of slippers and somehow Im the asshole cause I throw a rage about spending my money on her damn family but yea wooooo neo gots a pair of slippers for 10 while you get $200 for xmas. ALL I bought was a damn gamecube for myself cause thats my gift to myself but geez im heated right now.

FINE I dont need your money and she throws 70 at me, I aint gonna feel remorse or apologize toward her cause she needs to see the fault in her action about spending money and thinkin I dont have any say on what or who you spend it on. I dont care if its only your money but if u use my money as well then we got a problem.

Had TO VENT before I put fist thru wall/head

You have to realize that this is partly your fault. How did she get your money? Either you have a joint bank account or you gave it to her. If you want it to stop, then you need to have a private account or just stop giving her your money. You have to do something though because money problems are the biggest obstacle in relationships. If you are married then a lot of people will say that it is healthy to share the money. That doesn't always work. You earn the money, it is yours. You have the right to limit her spending of it or outright stopping her spending of it. If she doesn't like it and wants to leave, you have to work that out as well. If she really is spending an excessive amount of money that is not hers though, she needs to realize that what she is doing is wrong and is hurting her relationship with you.

My Mum's constantly like that with my Dad. Why do married women
think they're freaking queen Elizabeth. I know I'm a member of the
'Female Species' but trust me when I say I ain't that kind of person.

this is the reason why i'm never getting married. All I can say is:

Damn you need to talk to that woman.

ah yes the joys of being single...more money for me

Revan you are just a notch above this chick.